Your Personal Navigation System…… 3 Secrets to Jump-Starting your INTUITION today!

3 Secrets to Jump-Starting your INTUITION today!....
Your Personal Navigation System

My how time flies…… It’s been a while since my last post and I must say taking a brake to regroup and recharge has done me a whole lot of good.  I’ve decided to recreate this blog into a monthly newsletter that will allow me to be more consistent. Needless to say I’m very excited to be back and look forward to our continued journey together. I woke up this morning with this message of “Intuition” to share. Hope it brings you joy!

One of the greatest inventions of all time is GPS. Most people have gotten to the point where they literally cannot go from point A to point B without it. You no longer have the added stress of getting lost, (ok maybe thrown off from time to time), Having to stop and figure it out on a map and let’s face it getting to your destination is carefree, fun and a whole lot easier.

Interestingly enough, we too have a natural built in GPS called our “Intuition”, I like to call it my Personal Navigational System (PNS). While many enjoy the benefits of their car’s navigational system daily very few people are even aware of this extraordinary gift within themselves that can easily be accessed and used to make navigating through life, with all it’s challenges a much more enjoyable experience. Think of your driving experience before GPS versus now.  What a difference! Unless you live under a rock you’ve experienced the joy of being in a car with it.

 Intuition what does it mean anyway? It’s being able to have an immediate understanding and knowingness without any conscious reasoning or proof. It’s having a direct spiritual communication link, gut feeling, Sensing something is on or off, no doubt. While our intuition may have many forms in which it communicates with us. The challenge is Hearing and trusting the information we receive. Again, while we get in our cars and trust that the GPS will get us where we need to go effortlessly. Somehow we haven’t yet learnt the importance of developing our own inner guidance system. Beginning to get the picture……

When you do pay attention and trust your intuition a whole new world opens up for you. One of the many ways in which I’ve put my intuition to use is dining. Yes, dining how often have you gone to a restaurant, it felt a bit odd yet you stayed only to have a lousy meal.  After having so many experiences like that, Victor and I decided that if we felt off about a place we’ll walk out, even after being seated. Dining out has become a much more enjoyable and fun experience.  Another way I’ve put my intuition to use is in Relationships. OMG, you may say well, “how did you know your intuition was at work”? Let me put it this way, every single time my gut feeling felt off about someone and I didn’t listen…..you guessed it, I had terrible a experience……. However, it wasn’t all bad because, it gave me proof to trust my intuition and then I developed the courage to walk away from (potential) relationships, I knew wasn’t right for me. 


The many ways in which our Intuition guides us is endless from the most simple of ways to making the biggest decisions of our lives. Like, where and what to eat? What to do? Relationships, whether to stay or leave? Do I even start with this person? Creativity, Career, Finance, you name it, the list goes on and on…… This can make the difference between a mediocre life and one that’s lived with Passion, Purpose and Joy. In this month’s O magazine Oprah said “she’s never made a decision big or small without allowing her Intuition to be her guide” Starting today  allow this Amazing, Creative, All Knowing System to guide you by simply having the awareness, knowing it’s there maybe all that is needed right now and you have an added bonus it’s FUN! Who couldn’t use more of that …. Awareness may not sound like much right now but it’s the best gift you can allow yourself embarking on this new journey.  I’d like to help you get started by sharing…..

The 3 Secrets to Jump-Starting your INTUITION Personal Navigational System (PNS) today:

1.     Silence, Meditation! Your intuition is the soft voice within. A busy mind and body cannot hear what it has to say. You’re guaranteed to get incorrect information. Begin training your inner system to tune in by starting with simply 3 minutes a day.

2.     Trust, Certainty! While seeing maybe believing for many, if you are to reap the benefits of your intuition you must trust without proof.  You don’t get proof til after you trust. That’s just the way it is…

3.     Courage, Bravery! While everyone may want to go right, your intuition may be telling you to go left. Dare to be different and march to the rhythm of your own spirit. Step out of the box. No single person who is successful, enjoys his or her life to the fullest has ever done it without courage.

Practice! Practice! Practice! Easy does it, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Start with the simple things and work your way up. Watch your life go from Mist to Bliss!

Should you have any questions or comments, feel free to stop by and share……..I’d love to hear of  your experiences and progressJ

To your Intuition!

Love & laughter

Your Intuitive Life & Relationship Advisor

Annette Charite is a professional Intuitive, Life & Relationship Advisor who has assisted her clients over the past decade in transforming their lives and creating Harmony, Balance and Joy in their Relationships, Creativity, Life Purpose and Spirituality. You can read more by going to What people are saying...........

Reset Your Relationship Love Vibe………………

Relationships, Relationships, Relationships. Where does one begin? I must admit this has to be one of my favorite topics, because it’s incredibly fascinating to me that no matter who you are or where you’re from, the one thing we all want is someone to love, and be loved in return.  (Let’s not forget the most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself!) 

I’ve also screwed up so miserably in this area of my life for so long that I knew there had to be another way. My quest to find a new approach to dating resulted in me learning some invaluable lessons, as well as discovering techniques (that I’ve put into practice) which guided me to attracting my husband and soul mate.

Like everything else in the universe, relationships are governed by spiritual laws --(future post) an aspect of life that few people seem to care about, or even have any awareness of. Human consciousness is now shifting rapidly to a higher vibration more than ever before.  Whether we chose to recognize it or not, people are seeking to experience a deeper connection with the person that would be their mate.   

To attract an ideal mate, and maintain a fun-filled loving relationship requires that we evolve spiritually and emotionally. We must spiritually “get with the times” if we are to have the relationships we so desire.  Nothing illustrates this better than technology: look how far we’ve come in wireless communication since the days of the beeper. Technology continues to grow and evolve with no end in sight. Why then do we think that we can continue using the same old methods, and holding the same beliefs and behavioral patterns in our relationships and expect them to work? Simply put -- they won’t!

While attending a recent seminar on relationships I observed how members of the panel offered insights on how to make relationships work, yet mentioned nothing about the energetic and spiritual aspects of relationships. (This is where the MAGIC is!) This explains why we keep going around in circles, experiencing the same challenges over and over again, and wondering why our relationships are not working (or why we’re not even connecting with anyone). This leaves many to wonder if they’re destined to be alone, or be in unsatisfying relationships for the rest of their lives. I have to say YES -- most will have this experience, unless we revolutionize our perception, and shift our consciousness to match the vibrational frequency of the times. 

Understand, there’s a whole behind-the-scenes production going on when meeting someone, and having a relationship. Everything in that space is ENERGY at work -- having an awareness and understanding of this dynamic will greatly enhance your ability to attract your ideal mate, and create a beautiful, loving relationship with him or her. This however, will require you to do the work of Self-Discovery with commitment and consistency. If you feel you’re already doing this GENUINELY, and no one has shown up, then leave it up to DIVINE TIMING, and some PATIENCE.

In working with my clients as an Intuitive Relationship Coach I’ve found the understanding and shifting of the Energetic, Spiritual and Vibrational aspects  of your being creates extraordinary changes in how you are able to access passion, flow, joy, ease and play with your partner, as well as  attract an ideal mate.  

So, as you go about your day thinking how awesome it would be to meet someone special,  or how much you’d love to enhance your current relationship, think first of resetting your vibe and shifting your perception to bring about your desires in a new, more spiritually aligned way. Yes, Yes, I can hear it now: “Well, how do I do that?” Simply start by Asking and Trusting. In doing so, your priority will be on shifting your own vibration, rather than focus on someone, or something else. This is truly where the fun begins………. Remember the phrase "money goes to money" you will always attract to you who you are, not what you want. (Everything is ENERGY)


To your ideal Relationship!!

Be Bold! Be Curious! Be Courageous....

I’m a little bit behind on my posts…. …. (don’t tell!) I figure better late than never, so here it is:

Let’s face it, how many brilliant ideas -- like starting your own business, or some new flash of creative genius -- have you let fall by the wayside because you told yourself “No Way”. Or how many times have you failed to act on a strong desire because you had the same self-defeating thought. You know -- that girl or guy you made eye contact with and wanted to find out more about, or wanting to end a dead-end relationship should have been cut loose way back when, or getting out of that job you love to hate. You get the idea, but somehow we find ourselves spinning our wheels and wondering why life so dull, and things don’t work out for us. If you were able to muster up the courage to take the necessary action then there’d be one word to describe your life: BLISSFUL

Anything outside the norm can be quite frightening. What will our friends think? What will our families say? Having our dreams and desires manifested into the physical takes a whole lot of courage. Something I’m quite too familiar with, it reminds me of a quote by Alan Cohen:

“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.”

The question now is how do you plan on experiencing your life? With adventure, excitement and creativity or security, boredom and routine? You do the math.

The great news is that it’s never too late. You can make the decision today to change any situation around and start living -- not merely surviving and existing. I imagine you might be wondering, “How in the world do I do that?” Let me put it this way -- most of us have never even entertained the idea of how wonderfully different our lives could be. We only know what we’ve been taught, having become comfortable with what’s familiar. Yet at the same time we admire, or are even envious of other people’s success when within each and every one of us lays our greatness waiting to be expressed in some form or another.

My one and only rule, if I had to have one, is NEVER, EVER envy someone else’s life. We’re all on our own journey in this lifetime and you never know the whole truth about the other person’s life anyway (another subject for a later post)

Simply start by intending (not wishing) for your life to be more creative, healthy, prosperous, playful. Then be willing to apply the miraculous power of courage to take the necessary steps in bringing about the change you desire.

I have a client who truly embraced the power of courage. She’d been working in an unsatisfying job for quite some time. Through our coaching sessions, she discovered that her divine purpose was that of a healer, so she quit her job and began living the life her soul had intended for her all along. She’s incredibly happy doing her healing work, and has tapped into a wealth of creativity and talents that she didn’t even know was there before. Was she terrified to give up a great paying full time job? Absolutely! Did she have second thoughts? Of course! However, she’s now reaping the benefits of designing her life just the way she wants it. (How exciting!) In working with my clients, I find the one’s who’ve experienced the greatest results had each developed the courage to take leaps of faith into the unknown. After all, courage equals freedom.

While quitting your unsatisfying job or ending that screwed-up relationship may be too terrifying to contemplate right now, start by applying the power of courage to smaller tasks and build on the results toward bigger things. Courage is a bold statement to the universe that says you’re choosing for things to be different. The next time you find yourself wondering if…. I say, “Be bold! Be curious! but  more importantly be courageous, for underneath the surface-self lives a passionate, creative, fabulous new you waiting to be discovered!!!

Feel free to share your courageous stories and how it’s changed your life. If you don’t have one then get started today.

To your freedom!

Gratitude Letter-Your life by design for 2011

Happy New Year!!! May your heart’s desire and intentions be manifested in this upcoming year.

I’m so excited to share this amazing exercise with you!!! A few years ago it was introduced to me by the Unity Church of NY, and let me just say that over the past three years or so I have been doing it, I’ve been blown away by the results (I’m sure the same will happen for you).

As you begin this New Year excited to embark on your resolutions, it’s highly possible that most of them will fade away by the end of the month as you settle back into your daily activities. But, this simple exercise will keep the energy of your resolutions alive, while assisting you in manifesting your desires in ways you never thought possible……

The Gratitude letter exercise for 2011:

Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed, have pen, paper and an envelope.

Feel free to be as creative as you wish with the space -- light a candle, play soft inspirational, classical or yoga music, use artful writing paper -- you get the drift…..

Once you get settled you are now ready to start writing.

Be sure to date your letter December 31, 2011 -- the end of next year. This is the date you will open your letter. In this letter you list your dreams, aspirations and desires for 2011 as already accomplished, while describing how grateful and happy you are to God, Higher Power, the universe or whatever you wish (you get the idea) for manifesting them into reality.

Once completed, place your letter in the envelope, put in a safe and special place to be opened on New Years Eve, 12/31/2011.  When you read it, prepare to be joyfully surprised at the items on your list that actually came true!

This is a great family exercise that will put you all in the mindset for conscious, joyful and creative living.

Most importantly, HAVE FUN! This is your world create it as you wish.

 All the best, and Happy writing!!!

P.S. I would love to hear about some of your experiences while writing your gratitude letter….

Silence is speaking, shhhhh….

Silence is one of the most extraordinary gifts bestowed upon us. It’s easily within our reach, but because it’s so close and subtle most of us don’t even know it’s there for us, much less how to utilize this amazing tool to make life a JOY. 

Okay, so you’ve experienced the occasional silence when you’re alone, but even then you don’t get the full benefit of it because the mind is racing a mile a minute -- focusing on what happened yesterday, what will happen tomorrow and just trying to figure out your next step.

Our most divine inspirations come out of silence. For example, I was looking over a journal I had written a year ago, and found where I said that I wanted to write a blog. Well, I’ve had so many excuses and reasons why I couldn’t get it started (this type of thing had been going on for years). Over the past three weeks I have been practicing laying in silence in my yoga class. During a recent session, the idea came to me to write a blog and create a teleseminar on relationships. The name of the class, the length of time and the amount to charge were all made very clear in this moment of inspiration. Knowing myself I would have agonized over the fee, the name, and heaven knows what else, until I somehow talked myself out of it. Thankfully, a client (and dear friend) was readily available to assist me in setting up the technical stuff (my least favorite) in the interim.

Something miraculous happens when silence speaks -- you begin to move with a sense of ease, joy, confidence and creativity that you’ve never experienced before. The icing on the cake is that you now have the full support of the universe orchestrating the right people, circumstances and situations to make it work out for you, and for the highest good of all.

As an intuitive I know how invaluable the use of silence is for creating miracles around relationships, career, finances, spirituality and just every day living.  I find that often when my clients are introduced to the concept of silence they begin to experience a shift in whatever the issue may be. When the mind is not busy trying to rationalize and justify it gives spirit a way to figure it out for us.

While silence is form of meditation, I find that most people have a hard time just being still, and frankly don’t think they have the time. So, I invite you throughout the upcoming year to do less and accomplish more by simply setting the intention to listen to the silence every day. If you are someone who has aspirations and desires to manifest in the coming year, you cannot afford to miss out on this amazing gift. Don’t spend another year going around in circles. Play around with the idea to see what comes up. This will start to create a new awareness, and take you places you never imagined. While there are countless ways to go into silence, find an ideal way that works for you, free writing, spending time in nature, focusing on your breathing, to name a few.  If you desire it, the way will be shown. I find that I experience a great sense of stillness in Kunadalini yoga where silence, usually, has my undivided attention.

Of course, while silence is a great first step, trusting and taking action with the information you receive is where the real work begins.

 Happy listening!!!!!

Welcome!

Thanks for stopping by! It is often said that “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re going to get”. That's exactly how this blog has come to be. After planning and thinking it over for what seemed like a lifetime - - okay mostly fear - - just recently the other day it happened out of the blue, and of course with the help of some incredible people, here it is…. YAY!!!!

Did you know that your authentic self is that of Joy, Freedom, Creativity, Love, Intuition, Laughter, Vitality, Prosperity and Abundance in all areas of your life? However, getting caught up in the thrall of everyday living, hectic schedules and deadlines your energy is more focused on doing than being. You end up feeling stressed, anxious and life becomes about just getting through another day, only to take you further away from the real you.  Life becomes about survival, and let’s face it, there is no fun in that. I know this way quite well because I’ve lived it .

Discovering, reconnecting and living from your authentic self and power creates such lightness in your being that it reignites the mystery, excitement and joy of living which is what you are here to experience in the first place. I have created this space as an oasis, and to serve as a reminder of who you truly are: Divine. As an Intuitive,  I have been blessed to utilize my abilities, passion and love to help countless people find clarity, solutions, peace of mind and the courage to create miracles in every area in their lives. I'm excited to share the wisdom, knowledge and insights that I have gained along the way so that you too can get on with creating miracles in your life.

Looking forward to connecting with you!!!